Q: If I am in a dating relationship which has moved out of the ‘tingly’ love stage, how do I know that I am still in love with this person as we transition into the love languages stage? A: This is an excellent question because everybody if you date long enough will move from the euphoria of…
Q: “We are a Christian engaged couple growing in our walk with God. However, we are not virgins and this is the first time both us are actively pursuing abstinence under God’s leadership. We have confessed all of our past histories to each other and are pursuing individual accountability partners. Since we’re engaged is it…
Q: How can a couple find ways to work around legitimate differences that sometimes are, by nature, hurtful to the other person? For instance, one spouse’s love language is quality time, but the other one has a highly social job and when at home needs most of his or her time alone in a quiet part…
Dr. John Gottman, revered marriage expert, has done extensive research in the field of marriage. One of his most helpful findings is what separates successful marriages to ones that fail. The answer: Those that spend an extra 5 hours per week investing in their spouse tend to live a more fulfilled marriage. He calls it…
Q: “My girlfriend and I are Christians but we are sexually active. We know we are in the wrong and that God’s teaching tells us to be pure and wait till we are married. However, every time we try to stay pure we end up slipping up. What makes matters worse is that I am…
