Q: “My girlfriend and I are Christians but we are sexually active. We know we are in the wrong and that God’s teaching tells us to be pure and wait till we are married. However, every time we try to stay pure we end up slipping up. What makes matters worse is that I am…
Most couples that I see for counseling have not consistently dated in years. It’s an odd phenomenon that usually happens after the wedding; couples stop dating. The most common reasons I hear and see have to do with the physical proximity of living together, having a difficult time transitioning past the “I got what I…
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and half now, but the majority of our relationship has been difficult. She told me that God told her I was her husband and she had a vision that confirmed it for her. However, I have not been told that she is the…
Years ago, Ana met Mr. Wonderful, a travelling salesman. They fell in love but he had to keep travelling with his job. To remind her of his constant love, he wrote her letters—one each day, in fact. The postman would deliver them to her door each morning and she would snatch the letter out of…
Do you notice that when we let a few days go by without spending quality time together, walls begin to go up between us?” During one of our recent heart to hearts after a busy week of not seeing each other, my boyfriend asked me that question. Lately, we’ve been learning the importance of…
