Q: How can a couple find ways to work around legitimate differences that sometimes are, by nature, hurtful to the other person? For instance, one spouse’s love language is quality time, but the other one has a highly social job and when at home needs most of his or her time alone in a quiet part…
Q: My husband and I read your book. We have agreed once again to work on our marriage. We have tried several times to work on our marriage, but he always reverts back to infidelity with different women. Even if I express his primary love language, do you think that he can change. He tells…
Q: In marriage, are contraceptives (condoms, specifically) biblical? A: If you’re asking, “does the Bible speak directly to this issue?” The answer is “no.” The Bible doesn’t speak to a lot of what is going on in medical science today. Medications and cures etc. are not dealt with in the Bible because they were not there in…
Q: What does God say about an abusive, angry, and bitter husband, who insults his wife in front of their kids and blames the wife for everything that goes wrong? A: The scriptures say that we are to be angry and sin not. So, a husband who is lashing out at his wife in front of his children…
A: It would be very interesting to know whether this question is coming from a wife or husband. My guess is from a husband who is hearing his wife say, “I’m not interested.” Sexual intimacy is a very delicate matter. It’s at the very heart of our sexuality. In marriage, the ideal is that the sexual relationship…
