As I contemplate what I want my son to know when he starts marriage, I pray and think through how to “raise him like a man.” But, I find myself asking, “What does that even mean?” I ask that question because I have many examples of men who influenced me growing up and they were…
Q: We haven’t even been married 2yrs yet and my husband is telling his friends he wants a divorce after every fight. Do you think he means it? What should I do? A (Gary Chapman): He probably is very discouraged because fighting is discouraging. No one wins in a fight. Even if you win the…
Q: Does the Bible teach that it an obligation, or God’s will, for a married couple to have children? Or we just have to make the decision and go ahead with it? I believe that we have to do not only what we want, but also let God show us what is His will. However,…
Q: The man of my dreams—the man I’m marrying—just told me he doesn’t want to have kids. I’m devastated. What does one do? A (Gary Chapman): I would say you need to slow down the process. If you want to have children and he is determined not to have children, to me that could be…
Q: My husband and I both are blessed in having the same love languages—quality time and physical touch top the list for both of us. He is scheduled to deploy next May. What are some things we can do to help keep our love tanks full while he is deployed? A: Well, the good news is that…
