As I stumbled out of bed to start another day, my mind began its usually racing through the “to do” list ahead of me for the day. There was nothing special about that morning. No special occasion. Just another day, except for one thing.
Sitting on the couch was an envelope. I walked over to it and saw a CD lying there with instructions to listen to its contents. As instructed, I inserted the CD and listened as the melodies floated through the air, effortlessly whisking me away from my thoughts. Open the envelope during song number three the instructions stated. Giddy with excitement, song three started, and I tore open my envelope. Just because I love you the note read. Tears welled up in my eyes as I pulled out two tickets to see one of my favorite musicals.
As I jumped up and down squealing and crying all at the same time, it struck me that I was so excited for more than just our upcoming night out. I felt loved, appreciated, adored, and romanced. My husband had gone above and beyond to show me, on an ordinary day, that I am special to him. Like a ton of bricks crashing to my chest, I felt the weight of the realization that it wasn’t the size of the surprise but rather the thoughtfulness and love behind it that was making my heart feel like it was going to explode with love. Having known it from the day I met him, that loving gesture by my husband flooded me with the recognition that I have the most amazing man for a husband.
While this particular act of love was somewhat grand, the truth is that any act of love and kindness works magic in a relationship. It is those moments we are caught off guard by our other half’s love for us that mean so very much. It ignites our passion and appreciation for him/her while enveloping us with an overwhelming sense of being loved that we so desperately long for. Whether it’s bringing a hand-picked flower home to her or cooking his favorite dessert, those selfless acts of love are what fuel the flames of love and passion for years to come.
